Define the word "take'n" - Just A Silly Girl With a Silly Question

I am in a bit of a silly girl mood right now and that is were is funny question comes from....you see everyone longs (or almost everyone) to be able to say "sorry. I'm take'n" but what really dose that mean, I know that once you have said your "I Do's" it has a very clear meaning, but in the modern dating world what dose it really mean, some girls would get quit mad if you told them you thought there boy was a qutie and that you may have a small crush on him, girls are just like that, boys one the other hang I think like I when all the other guys think hes got "the Girls" now I ask you this, Is it really so bad to think another girls boy is cute? I mean its not like I am talking about jumping him the first second we are alone, I mean really cute, like cute cute not HOT I want to jump you cute, but like ...umm... he gives you butterflys when he looks at you with just a little smile, come on girls you know what I;m talking about. well as you may have guessd I have that small crush and I cant even really understand why I am sharing this on the world wide web, but he is inface a super cutie and he is the boy of a girl I know, I would not go as far as to say we are good friends but we are co-workers and are friends in a co-worker kinda way, but I am sure she would never talk to me again if she ever knew, so this is out little secreat:) I am not going to get all gushy and tell you everything about him and go over the top talking about him, but what I have been thinking about, and what made me come up with the question... what dose take'n mean...this second question...are they really off the market if thay are just dating? I mean its not a done deal, they havent read the fine print and singed on the line yet right? or is this all just wishfull thinking? like I said I am in a very silly girl mood, and just had to chatter at someone about this, and this seemed like the best place, so I am sorry if nothing this far has made any scence but I understand my thoughts and really am only trying to justify them to myself. so cheers to cute boys and hears to hoping the right one is on his way!


Its time for this silly giggly girl to hit the pillow, but in closing, hear is another thought for today...we never really ever realize how meany people we touch in our life until its us that needs a little lift, and we never really know that we are giveing someone the lift they need until they tell you when you are the one in need, its kinda this crazy cat and mouse game of life and a great one! there is always someone who needs you more than you need them and there is always someone who you need more than they need you, its great, not perfict or ideal but great! love and Hugs....Lizzy